Planning a Temecula girls’ weekend? Whether you’re celebrating a birthday, bachelorette party, reunion, or simply gathering your favorite people for a much-needed getaway, Temecula Wine Country offers the perfect mix of beautiful scenery, incredible food, award-winning wine, and unforgettable experiences.
Here’s how to plan the ultimate girls’ weekend in Temecula.
Start with Brunch and Bubbles
No girls’ weekend is complete without a little sparkle.
Kick off your day with a glass of sparkling wine (the sparkling rosé is a favorite around here when it’s available!) and a leisurely brunch surrounded by vineyard views. Temecula’s wine country atmosphere is all about slowing down, catching up, and savoring the moment.
A sparkling rosé or crisp brut paired with good conversation is the perfect way to begin your weekend.
Spend the Afternoon Wine Tasting
One of the biggest reasons visitors come to Temecula is, of course, the wine.
Rather than rushing from winery to winery, consider choosing a destination where you can truly settle in and enjoy the experience. Look for wineries that offer:
- Beautiful outdoor seating
- Wine flights and bottle service
- Elevated food options
- Live music
- Scenic views
- Comfortable spaces for groups
At Altísima Winery, guests can enjoy everything from tasting flights and seasonal wine releases to relaxing afternoons on the patio overlooking wine country.
Share a Charcuterie Board with a View
Some of the best moments of a girls’ trip happen around the table.
Order a beautiful charcuterie board, share a pitcher of sangria or a bottle of wine, and spend the afternoon catching up while overlooking the vineyards.
There’s no schedule, no rush, and no better backdrop for conversation than a sunny patio in Temecula Wine Country.
Enjoy Live Music and Golden Hour
As the afternoon transitions into evening, live music creates the perfect atmosphere.
Many Temecula wineries feature local musicians throughout the weekend, allowing guests to sip wine, dance, and enjoy the vineyard views as the sun begins to set.
At Altísima Winery, live music is a regular part of the experience, creating an energetic yet relaxed vibe that feels perfect for groups of friends.
Make Dinner an Experience
A memorable girls’ weekend deserves more than a quick meal.
Choose a winery restaurant where you can enjoy handcrafted cocktails, wine pairings, and a menu designed for sharing. Gaspar’s is open until 7pm on Fridays and Saturdays, and features live music all weekend long!
Whether you’re celebrating something special or simply enjoying time together, dinner in wine country is often the highlight of the weekend.
Plan Around Special Events
If your dates are flexible, consider planning your trip around one of Temecula’s seasonal winery events.
Popular experiences at Altísima include:
- Live music weekends
- Outdoor movie nights
- Member-exclusive parties
- Ongoing happenings like Vinyl & Vines + Taco Tuesdays
- Holiday events
- Food and wine pairing experiences
These events offer a fun way to experience the local wine scene while creating lasting memories with your group.

Stay Close to the Wineries
One of the best things about Temecula is that many vacation rentals are located right in the heart of wine country.
Look for accommodations that offer:
- Group-friendly layouts
- Outdoor gathering spaces
- Vineyard views
- Easy access to wineries and restaurants
This allows everyone to relax and enjoy the weekend without spending time driving around town. We especially love Temecula Hilltop, which overlooks Altisima winery!
Other Popular Stops for a Temecula Girls’ Weekend
One of the best things about Temecula Wine Country is that every winery offers a slightly different experience. Many visitors enjoy spending the day exploring a few properties before settling in at their favorite spot for food, wine, and sunset views.
A few popular wineries to include on your Temecula girls’ weekend itinerary:
- Europa Village for its European-inspired atmosphere and resort-style setting.
- Wilson Creek Winery, known for its sparkling wines and expansive grounds.
- South Coast Winery Resort & Spa for wine tasting paired with a luxurious spa experience.
- Callaway Vineyard & Winery for sweeping vineyard views and elevated dining.
- Altísima Winery for live music, seasonal events, wine tasting experiences, handcrafted cocktails, and one of the most inviting patios in Temecula Wine Country.
The key is finding the right balance between exploring and relaxing. Most groups find that visiting two or three wineries allows plenty of time to enjoy the experience without feeling rushed.
Sample Temecula Girls’ Weekend Itinerary
Friday
- Arrive in Temecula Wine Country
- Check into your vacation rental or hotel
- Head to Altísima Winery for dinner, wine, and sunset views
- Enjoy live music and a relaxing first evening with your group
Saturday
- Brunch with the girls
- Visit a few favorite wineries throughout wine country
- Share a charcuterie board and sangria overlooking the vineyards
- Explore Old Town Temecula for shopping and cocktails
- End the evening with dinner and more wine country memories
Sunday
- Enjoy a leisurely morning
- Sip sparkling wine and enjoy one final winery lunch
- Take a few vineyard photos before heading home
- Start planning your next girls’ getaway
The perfect Temecula girls’ weekend isn’t about rushing from place to place—it’s about slowing down, sharing great wine, enjoying incredible food, and spending quality time with the people who matter most.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the best winery for a girls’ weekend in Temecula?
The best wineries for groups offer a combination of great wine, food, live entertainment, beautiful views, and comfortable spaces to gather. Many visitors prefer wineries where they can spend several hours enjoying the full experience rather than making multiple stops.
How many wineries should you visit in one day?
Most groups find that two or three wineries allow enough time to enjoy tastings, food, and conversation without feeling rushed.
Is Temecula good for bachelorette parties?
Absolutely. Temecula is one of Southern California’s most popular destinations for bachelorette parties thanks to its wineries, scenic views, vacation rentals, and relaxed atmosphere.
What should I wear to a Temecula winery?
Wine country style is typically casual and elevated. Think sundresses, comfortable shoes, sun hats, and outfits that transition easily from daytime tastings to evening dinners.

Your Temecula Girls’ Weekend Starts Here
The best girls’ weekends aren’t packed with activities, they’re filled with moments you’ll talk about for years.
A bottle of wine shared among friends. A beautiful charcuterie board. Live music in the background. A sunset over the vineyards.
At Altísima Winery, those moments happen every day.
Whether you’re planning a birthday celebration, bachelorette weekend, reunion, or simply a getaway with your favorite people, we’d love to be part of your Temecula wine country experience.
Planning your Temecula girls' weekend?
From wine tasting and charcuterie boards to live music and vineyard views, Altísima has everything you need for a memorable day with your favorite people.

